Thursday, May 15, 2008

Letter to the editor.

Oh sometimes it is hard to live where I live. This is a quote from the local paper's opinion section.

Two Ontario women ” who set themselves up as a married couple, had a child and then split ” were both awarded parental rights to the child by the Ontario Court of Appeal, even though only one of the women has any blood relationship to the kid. So, now, the woman with no blood relationship to the child has just as much say about the future of the kid as either the biological father or birth mother. (emphasis mine)


Lawyers say the ruling may pave the way for courts to decide children can legally have multiple parents, including foster parents, close friends, uncles, aunts, etc.
If that happens, surely we will have chaos in our society.
But let's all get nuts.
Let's allow people to have multiple wives or husbands, and since anything apparently goes in our society” let's keep the rest of our options open, too, wherever that leads us.


I have responded with a letter to the editor. I guess we will see if it is published.

My letter stated the following.
The right of a same sex couple to be seen as legal parents and guardians in the eyes of the law has nothing to do with legalizing Polygamy. Since when does sharing DNA have anything to do with being a good parent? Are adoptive parents not parents? If a same sex couple has a child together, they are that child's parents. What about a couple who is infertile? What if they use a sperm or egg donor? Are they not the child's parent? The ability to procreate and sharing DNA is not indicative of a person's ability to be a good parent. This is just fear mongering.

3 comments:

RamblingMother said...

Actually it isn't fear mongering at all. It does pave the way to polygamy and is happening now in Texas from the FLDS ranch. Deciding that a child's rights are trumped by an adult's right in custody cases does leave the ability for three adults to claim rights to a child if the three adults were in a loving relationship living together with said child. It isn't fear mongering it is a logical follow through legally. It may not be what people wish to happen but it is a legal follow through.

Tanya said...

Thanks for the comment Beverly.

This issues hits close to home for me. Friends of mine, a married lesbian couple, have kids. If they split, one of them no longer has any legal right to the children that she raised from Birth.

The Warren Family said...

Good for you writing a letter back!